258:How a Nurse Practitioner Faced Her Daughter’s Tetralogy of Fallot Diagnosis- Sarah’s Story

258:How a Nurse Practitioner Faced Her Daughter’s Tetralogy of Fallot Diagnosis- Sarah’s Story

Podcast Show Notes

We’d like to extend our sincere thanks to our episode sponsor, reStickity®. Their innovative, mess-free reusable sticker sets allow families to personalize hospital spaces with familiar photos and comforting images, helping bring a sense of home to the hospital. To learn more, visit their website and use code CLOC10 for an exclusive discount available to our listeners.

In this inspiring episode, we meet Sarah Michelle Boes—nurse practitioner, entrepreneur, and mom to Meadow, who was diagnosed in utero with Tetralogy of Fallot and multiple congenital heart defects. Sarah brings a powerful trifecta of perspectives: as a medical provider, mental health advocate, and dedicated heart mom.

We cover:
✅ Meadow’s life-saving heart surgeries and long ICU stays
✅ How Sarah navigated new motherhood with OCD and anxiety
✅ The emotional toll of being both a medical provider and a parent
✅ Creating a connection through medical play to ease doctor visits
✅ How Sarah turned survival into purpose through national advocacy

Whether you’re a fellow medical parent, healthcare provider, or mental health professional, this episode will leave you with real insight into the raw challenges and unexpected joys of raising a child with complex medical needs.

Key Topics & Highlights

[00:00] – Meet Sarah Michelle Boes

  • Nurse practitioner, entrepreneur, and heart mom

  • Her daughter Meadow’s surprise diagnosis of Tetralogy of Fallot at 36 weeks

⏱️ [03:00] – From Business Success to Medical Crisis

  • Selling her business weeks before Meadow’s diagnosis

  • The shock of learning Meadow had four heart defects

⏱️ [05:00] – Learning to Navigate as a Medical Parent

  • How Sarah’s medical background helped (and complicated) her parenting

  • Teaching her husband how to advocate medically alongside her

⏱️ [07:00] – Mother’s Intuition & Switching OBs

  • Sarah felt something was wrong during pregnancy but was dismissed

  • A new ultrasound revealed her daughter’s heart looked “weird”

⏱️ [10:00] – NICU Rollercoaster Begins

  • Meadow intubated within hours of birth due to medication side effect

  • Sarah and her husband find strength in teamwork

⏱️ [14:00] – Advice for New Heart Parents

  • The overwhelm of tracking vitals and data post-discharge

  • Feeling more like Meadow’s nurse than her mom

⏱️ [17:00] – The Unexpected Second Surgery & Major Setbacks

  • Meadow’s patch failed, requiring emergency open-heart surgery

  • Her chest remained open for a week due to complications

⏱️ [21:00] – A Brain Bleed Diagnosis & Mental Health Spiral

  • Sarah shares how uncertainty triggered her OCD

  • Emotional trauma of seeing Meadow cold, still, and open-chested

⏱️ [25:00] – Living in the ICU Full-Time

  • How Sarah and her husband made the hospital their home

  • The benefits of being physically present 24/7

⏱️ [28:00] – Discharge Shock & OCD Diagnosis

  • Meadow is stable—but Sarah’s anxiety peaks post-discharge

  • Diagnosed with OCD just 10 days after coming home

⏱️ [32:00] – Healing Through Gratitude & Giving Back

  • Family vacation sparks the idea for a donation

  • The heart institute is named in Meadow’s honor with a mural

⏱️ [36:00] – Sarah’s Ongoing CHD Advocacy Work

  • Advocating for the Congenital Heart Futures Act

  • Raising awareness for adult congenital cardiology and research needs

⏱️ [40:00] – The Power of Medical Play

  • Meadow’s echos improved after doing medical play at home

  • Sarah incorporates play to help her daughter cope with appointments

⏱️ [43:00] – Reflections & Advice for Other Parents

  • Learning how strong her partnership with her husband is

  • Why having the right support person changes everything

⏱️ [45:00] – Where to Follow Sarah & Continue the Journey

  • Website, LinkedIn, Instagram, and more

Connect with Sarah Michelle Boes

📲 Website & Heart Mom Resources: www.sarahmichelleboes.com
📷 Instagram: @sarahmichelleboes
💼 LinkedIn Community & Advocacy Writing: Connect on LinkedIn

❤️ Share This Episode
Know a heart mom, Tetralogy of Fallot parent, or healthcare professional who supports families with congenital heart defects? Share Sarah’s courageous story to raise awareness, foster mental health advocacy, and connect families navigating similar journeys.

🧠 This episode also sheds light on the mental health challenges parents face—especially postpartum OCD—bringing compassion and visibility to an often-misunderstood diagnosis.

🎙️ Subscribe & Review: Help other heart families and caregivers discover this story by subscribing and leaving a review.

📩 Contact us: lyndsey@childlifeoncall.com

🎧 Listen Now and Honor the Strength of Heart Moms Like Sarah

#TetralogyOfFallot #HeartMom #CHDAwareness #OCDawareness #MaternalMentalHealth #ChildLifeOnCall #ParentingThroughCHD


The Child Life On Call Podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. The content shared in each episode, including stories, discussions, and interviews, is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you heard on this podcast. The views and opinions expressed by guests on the Child Life On Call Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Child Life On Call. Child Life On Call does not endorse any specific medical treatments, procedures, or opinions shared in the podcast. If you or your child are experiencing a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate medical attention. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge that Child Life On Call and its affiliates are not responsible for any decisions made based on the information provided.

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  • Status: Scheduled
  • Release Date: Jun 11, 2025
  • Author: Katie Taylor
  • Episode Type: full
  • Episode: 258
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Episode Description

We’d like to extend our sincere thanks to our episode sponsor, reStickity®. Their innovative, mess-free reusable sticker sets allow families to personalize hospital spaces with familiar photos and comforting images, helping bring a sense of home to the hospital. To learn more, visit their website and use code CLOC10 for an exclusive discount available to our listeners.

In this inspiring episode, we meet Sarah Michelle Boes—nurse practitioner, entrepreneur, and mom to Meadow, who was diagnosed in utero with Tetralogy of Fallot and multiple congenital heart defects. Sarah brings a powerful trifecta of perspectives: as a medical provider, mental health advocate, and dedicated heart mom.

We cover:
✅ Meadow’s life-saving heart surgeries and long ICU stays
✅ How Sarah navigated new motherhood with OCD and anxiety
✅ The emotional toll of being both a medical provider and a parent
✅ Creating a connection through medical play to ease doctor visits
✅ How Sarah turned survival into purpose through national advocacy

Whether you’re a fellow medical parent, healthcare provider, or mental health professional, this episode will leave you with real insight into the raw challenges and unexpected joys of raising a child with complex medical needs.

Key Topics & Highlights

[00:00] – Meet Sarah Michelle Boes

  • Nurse practitioner, entrepreneur, and heart mom

  • Her daughter Meadow’s surprise diagnosis of Tetralogy of Fallot at 36 weeks

⏱️ [03:00] – From Business Success to Medical Crisis

  • Selling her business weeks before Meadow’s diagnosis

  • The shock of learning Meadow had four heart defects

⏱️ [05:00] – Learning to Navigate as a Medical Parent

  • How Sarah’s medical background helped (and complicated) her parenting

  • Teaching her husband how to advocate medically alongside her

⏱️ [07:00] – Mother’s Intuition & Switching OBs

  • Sarah felt something was wrong during pregnancy but was dismissed

  • A new ultrasound revealed her daughter’s heart looked “weird”

⏱️ [10:00] – NICU Rollercoaster Begins

  • Meadow intubated within hours of birth due to medication side effect

  • Sarah and her husband find strength in teamwork

⏱️ [14:00] – Advice for New Heart Parents

  • The overwhelm of tracking vitals and data post-discharge

  • Feeling more like Meadow’s nurse than her mom

⏱️ [17:00] – The Unexpected Second Surgery & Major Setbacks

  • Meadow’s patch failed, requiring emergency open-heart surgery

  • Her chest remained open for a week due to complications

⏱️ [21:00] – A Brain Bleed Diagnosis & Mental Health Spiral

  • Sarah shares how uncertainty triggered her OCD

  • Emotional trauma of seeing Meadow cold, still, and open-chested

⏱️ [25:00] – Living in the ICU Full-Time

  • How Sarah and her husband made the hospital their home

  • The benefits of being physically present 24/7

⏱️ [28:00] – Discharge Shock & OCD Diagnosis

  • Meadow is stable—but Sarah’s anxiety peaks post-discharge

  • Diagnosed with OCD just 10 days after coming home

⏱️ [32:00] – Healing Through Gratitude & Giving Back

  • Family vacation sparks the idea for a donation

  • The heart institute is named in Meadow’s honor with a mural

⏱️ [36:00] – Sarah’s Ongoing CHD Advocacy Work

  • Advocating for the Congenital Heart Futures Act

  • Raising awareness for adult congenital cardiology and research needs

⏱️ [40:00] – The Power of Medical Play

  • Meadow’s echos improved after doing medical play at home

  • Sarah incorporates play to help her daughter cope with appointments

⏱️ [43:00] – Reflections & Advice for Other Parents

  • Learning how strong her partnership with her husband is

  • Why having the right support person changes everything

⏱️ [45:00] – Where to Follow Sarah & Continue the Journey

  • Website, LinkedIn, Instagram, and more

Connect with Sarah Michelle Boes

📲 Website & Heart Mom Resources: www.sarahmichelleboes.com
📷 Instagram: @sarahmichelleboes
💼 LinkedIn Community & Advocacy Writing: Connect on LinkedIn

❤️ Share This Episode
Know a heart mom, Tetralogy of Fallot parent, or healthcare professional who supports families with congenital heart defects? Share Sarah’s courageous story to raise awareness, foster mental health advocacy, and connect families navigating similar journeys.

🧠 This episode also sheds light on the mental health challenges parents face—especially postpartum OCD—bringing compassion and visibility to an often-misunderstood diagnosis.

🎙️ Subscribe & Review: Help other heart families and caregivers discover this story by subscribing and leaving a review.

📩 Contact us: lyndsey@childlifeoncall.com

🎧 Listen Now and Honor the Strength of Heart Moms Like Sarah

#TetralogyOfFallot #HeartMom #CHDAwareness #OCDawareness #MaternalMentalHealth #ChildLifeOnCall #ParentingThroughCHD


The Child Life On Call Podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. The content shared in each episode, including stories, discussions, and interviews, is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you heard on this podcast. The views and opinions expressed by guests on the Child Life On Call Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Child Life On Call. Child Life On Call does not endorse any specific medical treatments, procedures, or opinions shared in the podcast. If you or your child are experiencing a medical emergency, call 911 or seek immediate medical attention. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge that Child Life On Call and its affiliates are not responsible for any decisions made based on the information provided.

Medical rounds can feel daunting for parents—packed with medical jargon, swift decisions, and limited time for questions. In this episode, Katie Taylor, Certified Child Life Specialist and founder of Child Life On Call, breaks down everything parents need to know about medical rounds. From understanding their purpose to practical strategies for staying informed and involved, this episode equips you with tools to navigate rounds confidently.

Whether it’s your first time attending rounds or you’ve struggled with timing conflicts, this episode offers insights and solutions to help you advocate effectively for your child.

Key Topics Covered:

 

What are Medical Rounds?

The purpose of medical rounds and how they facilitate communication among care teams.

Family-centered rounds and their impact on collaborative care.

Challenges Parents Face:

Timing conflicts and the fast-paced nature of rounds.

Feeling excluded when rounds occur without family involvement.

Introducing Q Rounds:

A new solution designed to provide predictable timing for medical rounds.

How Q Rounds helps families stay informed and connected.

Practical Tips for Parents:

Communicating effectively with nurses and care teams.

Capturing observations and questions for rounds using tools like SupportSpot.

Alternatives When You Can’t Be Present:

Speakerphone participation and other options for staying informed.

How child life specialists can act as advocates in your absence.

Tools to Empower Families:

Overview of the SupportSpot app and how it helps parents navigate healthcare experiences beyond the hospital.

 

 
00:00 Welcome and Introduction
00:08 Understanding Medical Rounds
00:56 Introducing Q Rounds
02:08 The Importance of Family-Centered Rounds
03:47 Tips for Effective Rounds Participation
06:50 Alternative Ways to Participate in Rounds
07:48 Conclusion and Additional Resources

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